Weddings have always been full of tradition—but more couples are confidently rewriting the rules. From Pinterest-perfect décor to Instagram aisle rituals, today’s celebrations are focusing more on what’s meaningful (and budget-friendly) instead of what’s expected. Here are 5 wedding traditions couples are skipping—and how ditching them is saving them money on their special day without losing the magic.

🚫 1. Matching Bridesmaid Dresses
Why it’s fading: Today’s brides want their party to feel confident and comfortable—not uniform.
Modern swap: Give your bridal party a color palette or fabric type and let them choose their own look. We love the casual cohesiveness!
Money saved: No need to buy multiple matching gowns from a bridal salon = $150–$300 per person saved.

🚫 2. Full Paper Stationery Suites
Why it’s fading: Between save-the-dates, invites, RSVP cards, menus, and programs—it adds up.
Modern swap: Use QR codes for RSVPs and details. Stick with traditional stationery for invites and menus!
Money saved: Stationery + postage for 100 guests can cost over $1,000. Couples are saving big with digital.

🚫 3. Formal Wedding Favors
Why it’s fading: Guests often leave them behind (believe us, they do!) or toss them later.
Modern swap: Skip favors altogether or offer an edible treat (milk and cookies, ice cream trucks, late night snack bar, or coffee-to-go).
Money saved: $3–$7 per guest = $300–$700 back in your budget.

🚫 4. Elaborate Wedding Cakes
Why it’s fading: Large, multi-tiered cakes can cost upwards of $1,000–$2,000. (And lots of it can go to waste!)
Modern swap: Couples are serving inexpensive sheet cakes, custom cupcakes, personal pies, or even dessert grazing tables instead.
Money saved: Often 50–75% less than traditional cake costs. Some items can even be found at your local grocer's bakery section!

🚫 5. Rehearsal Dinners for Everyone
Why it’s fading: Hosting a dinner for 50+ people adds another big event (and expense).
Modern swap: Keep it intimate with just the wedding party and immediate family. At the farm, we offer a casual pizza party dinner by the bonfire after rehearsal, a great option!
Money saved: Catering for 50 guests = $2,000–$4,000 saved.

Final Thought
The most memorable weddings we see are the ones that feel personal, not perfect. Ditching certain traditions isn’t about cutting corners—it’s about creating a day that reflects your love story, values, and priorities, and leaves your guests remembering your day for a lifetime!
So go ahead—skip some of those formalities. We promise, you can still keep the magic.